I’m a pasty bitch too. If I’m travelling to a sunny destination I need to put on a bit of a bronze glow though. Not out of vanity.... but because if I don’t I’ll burn and blister if I’m in the sun for less than an hour even with 60 sunblock lol.
I'd say mostly this is true, personality is always number one with them. But there are a lot of cougars out there that go crazy for big guys, especially the not shy ones. Who will just start grabbing your arms